For my initial reaction, please see the post, Eternal Space: a Debacle?, on my blog.
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June 16, 2009
My Letter to Thomas Parmalee About EternalSpace
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May 6, 2009
Two New Cot Cover Designs That Look Like Old Quilts
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April 7, 2009

William Warren, a designer, shares his concept for “Shelves for Life” that serve as a place to store books and knickknacks while you’re alive, and a beautiful coffin for when you need it most.
March 17, 2009
Why You Can’t Protect “Ideas” in Business
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As a funeral industry consultant, I hear regularly from people who have a great idea for a product but are unwilling to share the information with other people to find out if it’s viable.
These folks suffer from idea over-valuation.
Truth is, ideas are pretty cheap. And while it seems like everyone is looking for the “next big idea”, the people who get ahead are the ones with the nerve and patience to create the product AND do the hard work to actually sell it.
A few years ago, I met a man who had an interesting idea for a funeral-related product. He decided to make it because his family liked it. When pressed to get a funeral industry perspective, he visited his friend, a licensed director.
Do you think his friend was completely honest with him?
Based upon his family’s encouragement and the (misplaced) kindness of his funeral director friend, he booked a booth at the NFDA show that year.
Yes, based upon the advice of twelve family members and one funeral directing friend, he dropped a few thousand dollars to attend a trade show. And he made the biggest show of them all his very first true foray into the industry.
Last I heard, he packed up after show and went home in disgust. I don’t know if he’s still selling, but he hasn’t exhibited at any other trade shows and I don’t expect to see him on the circuit again.
Why did this happen? Because he was so intent on sharing his amazing idea (what was it? Doesn’t matter; this stories been told numerous times with many different products) before anyone could “steal” it, he skipped the most important steps.
Having an “amazing new idea” is not new. In fact, in happens to us humans on a regular basis. Often, the idea is nothing special and we forget about it. Other times, we come up with something truly revolutionary that makes a job easier or people happier.
Still, no matter how amazing, you still have to do the work of creating and selling it.
When I started making quilted cot covers, there were already two people flogging a similar idea. In fact, I think their early cot covers were better than mine.
But I worked it and worked it and, yes, worked it until our covers became the amazing product they are today. No matter how good the idea (a cover that looks like a quilt, not a body bag!), you still have to improve it and find out how it helps your consumer. We did that, and now we are, arguably, the biggest maker of quilted cot covers anywhere!
Oh, and just to be clear: we’re still working it. All the time. Because I don’t want someone else to work harder than me and take over the #1 spot. And because I love what we do.
But don’t think, for even a second, that my competitors can’t or won’t study my product and borrow some of my ideas. After we started offering our amazing FluidBlocker lining (COTCOVERS.com Introduces New Lining!), I predicted that we had six months to a year before we’d see our competitors offering a similar feature. The post, Our Competitor, Quilted First-Call Covers, is Catching Up!, showed that we only realistically had 4 months head start.
Now, I’m not accusing any of my competitors of buying one of covers and figuring out what fabric we’re using (even Ferno isn’t copying it exactly), but what would have stopped them? Not me!
Making a decent quilted cot cover is not difficult. Consistently making them the right way and providing excellent customer service? That’s a lot harder.
So I say you should share your ideas with lots of people. Show them your great product (how else will you sell it?) and talk about what could make it better. Encourage past customers and future customers to tell you how to make your product meet their needs.
Ideas have to be in the marketplace to thrive.
(This post was partially inspired by the photo below. And while there’s not a correlation between a freely-shared idea and this bicycle, I still think trying to lock up your ideas provides the same false sense of security that this bike’s owner had after slapping a chain on his Huffy and walking into Best Buy.)

March 10, 2009
New Memorial Frame is Temporary Marker Alternative
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I had an interesting conversation with “Urnman” on the NFDA Biz Exchange message board just a few weeks ago. I was trying to figure out a new product he was talking about and I accidentally suggested there was a “gimmick” to it.
What I meant to ask was “what’s the hook that makes this thing a ‘must-have’ for families?”
Luckily, he was also attending the Georgia Expo last week and he brought a frame for me to check out.
Here’s what it looks like in person:

The frame can hold a 4″x6″ photo and has a section below for either a computer-printed or hand-written epitaph. The frame is weatherproof, with a neoprene seal for the access panel and a anti-condensation cover for the photograph.
Made of a strong, gold-colored plastic, this is one well-built frame. It’s supported by a bracket on the back that will allow it to either stand, like in the picture above, or slip over a ground stake, turning the frame into a temporary marker. Here’s a detail view of the bracket:

If you look closely at the picture above, you may notice a button near the bottom of the frame and a speaker area on the right. The button controls power to the motion-sensor on the front, that tells the frame to play “Fur Elise” by Beethoven when there is movement.
I told “Urnman” (Larry) that I’d retail this thing for $50 and show it to families when discussing marker choices for burial. In Florida, funeral homes can sell markers, so I’d help the family design their permanent marker, then show them this beautiful frame and a plain, gray temporary marker, saying:
We give all of our families one of these simple gray markers to identify the grave space until your permanent marker is ready in six to eight weeks. But we also have these musical photo frames that have space for a picture and can be taken home with you after the granite is placed. The frame is just $50. Which would you prefer?
Given the choice, at least half of these families will choose the more attractive option, in my opinion.
Check them out on Larry’s site, www.cremationurnsdirect.com.

March 4, 2009
2009 Georgia Expo Day 2 and Results
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Our trip to Atlanta for the 2009 Georgia Expo started on the birthday of my travel companion (my aunt, Dawn), so I ordered up a Georgia snowstorm for her:

We arrived at our hotel just after 3pm and immediately stood in front of the heater for a few minutes to de-frost. This is the view from our hotel, situated adjacent to Turner Field, where the Braves play:

After warming up and getting unpacked, we scooted off to scope out the expo location and enjoy a celebratory birthday dinner.
Driving in Atlanta is treacherous in sunny conditions (14 lanes of traffic, incomplete or missing directional signs, one-way streets), but finding our way through construction zones in the icy, freezing dark was an adventure.
We never did find out exactly how to get to the Georgia Freight Depot that night (I checked my email again and found the map the organizers sent me) but we did find the chosen restaurant, Pappasito’s Cantina (which we discovered last year and blogged about in the post KFDA 2008: Lunch in Atlanta).

We each ordered fajitas and the picture above is of the 4-person table they covered with our meal! As usual, the meal was totally wonderful and we were too full to even attempt dessert.
Move-in at the Freight Depot (host site of the Expo) was scheduled for 8:00 am Monday morning, with hearses and caskets going in first. That left less than 3.5 hours for the rest of us to set up and prepare for the wave of attendees.
Compounding my concern was the fact that Dawn is new to our company and has never set up our convention space, let alone sold a single cover before! So we set off early to find our way through downtown construction and get in line to load all our goodies into the exhibit hall.

We left our hotel room at 7:15 am and arrived at the location within 15 minutes. Load-in had started early and, to our surprise, the hearses and caskets had been loaded the day before, to keep them out of the snow and cold.
Even better than getting a jump on setting up, Dawn is good at puzzles and takes direction well. We had the metal shelving assembled within an hour and finished shelving covers and cleaning our area by 9:30.
After a quick breakfast at a Waffle House just a few blocks away, we changed clothes in the Expo restrooms and hit the floor just ahead of the funeral directors.
We recapped our Day 1 sales numbers in the post Almost All ULTRAs at the Georgia Expo. Our goal for the whole show was 20 covers, so selling 10 on the first day was a great relief. To celebrate, we went back to Pappasito’s, where we split a fajita platter (steak, chicken and rock lobster!) and shared a huge brownie dessert.

Day two started at 12:00 noon and saw even more funeral directors show up. The session was scheduled to end with a special legislative reception, which provided time for funeral directors to chat with their elected officials and lobby them on important funeral-related issues.
As the day wound down (closing time was 4:30 pm) and we watched other exhibitors tearing down their booths 30 to 45 minutes early (a real shame) we kept pushing for the last few sales that would put us over our goal.
Dawn sold cover #22 while we were breaking down our booth at 4:50 pm. One of the funeral directors who purchased a cover earlier in the day dodged the exiting hearses and fleeing casket sellers to add another cover to his order.
We’d exceeded our goal and, with snow still on the ground, were ready to pack the car and head back to Florida.

Dawn helped me implement a cool packing trick that I brainstormed before we left; we packed the two large towers of shelves full of covers and removed the large bridge shelves.

Then, we wrapped each one with cling film (Saran wrap) and loaded them into the car. Our sign and the cot we borrowed from my friends at our local funeral home, Harden-Pauli, fit sideways next to the shelves.
We stopped for a quick bite at a Zaxby’s Restaurant in Perry, GA and were home by 12:35 am.
In all, the event was a very positive experience for our growing company. We made some good contacts, signed three regional funeral supply companies to resell our product and got our cot covers into the removal vehicles of 20+ more funeral homes. And it only took three days and less than $1200. Here’s the breakdown:
|
Booth |
$ 550 |
|
Fuel |
$ 110 |
|
Hotel |
$ 248 |
|
Food |
$ 165 |
|
Brochures |
$ 50 |
|
Miscellaneous |
$ 50 |
|
TOTAL |
$ 1173 |
And while I haven’t figured out the exact sales figures for the show, I’ve estimated we wrote at least $5000 in orders.
February 17, 2009
Possible Fabric for Pet Removal Cover
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One of my customers and a faithful blog reader, Jodi Clock, cornered me at the 2008 NFDA Convention and told me I had to make a pet removal cot cover, so long as I made her one first.
Well, Jodi, here’s the fabric I’ve found so far:
I think it’s appropriate for most pets, like dogs and cats. Might even work for a badger, squirrel or ferret. I like the dark blue background, as it will ward off stains and dirty handprints. What do you think?
Anyone else doing enough pet funeral business that they need a cover for those clients?
I’ve promised Jodi first dibs, so if she wants one with this fabric, we’ll make hers first and start on the rest later. I’m thinking of offering this pattern with a sheet made from our FluidBlocker lining fabric to place over the cot pad. Of course, that’s just an initial reaction. What features do you think would be important for a pet removal cover?
February 16, 2009
2008 NFDA Convention: Eternal Space
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Prior to the 2008 NFDA Convention, I consulted for several companies that would be making their first showing at the expo.
Among them was a well-funded startup, called Eternal Space. For two months before the show, we had weekly, hour-plus phone consultations to discuss how they’d interact with funeral directors (they’re new to our industry) and how to present their unique product to a skeptical or un-informed public.
In the course of our conversations, I worked to get the guys from Eternal Space (Jay and Dave) to whittle the explanation of their product to one or two short sentences. Here’s what I finally settled on:
Eternal Space is the online equivalent of the world’s largest and most inclusive resting place that is accessible from anywhere in the world. While it can feature traditional cemetery components like headstones, trees and flower arrangements, Eternal Space is ultimately customizable, with spaces as diverse as beaches, mountainsides and meadows and almost any memorial feature you can imagine.
In theory (the site launches later this month), families pay a small fee to own an Eternal Space from their loved one. Visitors can plant trees (that will grow over time!) leave gifts of flowers and other items and sign a virtual guest book. Each Eternal Space features a large virtual memory book for photos, videos and condolences.
Eternal Space hit the 2008 convention hard and rolled out a 20′x40′ booth with bright white carpet and awesome graphic elements to reinforce the theme of modern, sleek and well-designed. Their space was just across the aisle from our CotCovers.com booth, so I got to listen to their video presentation for four days! (No complaints here, Jay. The video was professional and adequately communicated your product offerings.)
Their initial traffic was slow, as funeral directors tried to figure out who these news guys were. Competitors began paying attention and sneaking over to get a peek.
By the third day, they were having regular in-booth meetings with big name family funeral homes (I’m talking 5-10 location family groups) and getting people interested in their product.
During our consulting sessions we had discussed setting a realistic goal for leads generated by the show. They surpassed that goal by the beginning of the first day and won the “best new exhibitor” people’s choice prize before the show ended.
I’d talk more about the website now, but we’re all still waiting for them to roll out the full product. In the meantime, you can visit their site at www.EternalSpace.com and enroll for updates. You can also play with the “scene selector” to see a few of the memorial landscapes they have planned and watch a video that explains how your firm can make money offering Eternal Spaces to your clients.
And while I do some paid consulting work for Eternal Space, this article is NOT part of the pay agreement and my opinion hasn’t been bought. When their site goes live, I’ll bring you a more in-depth review and show you some of the cool features!
February 4, 2009
This is a limited time thing, so if you want one, skip right over to Buy.com and get it ASAP!
The Flip video camera Ultra model is on sale at Buy.com for just $89. That’s about 1/2 the price of a new one. The catch? They’re refurbished.
Still, if you want to play with one of these cameras but don’t want to invest over $100, why not consider a refurb? The company guarantees them just like a new one.
This is the same camera that I use to make videos that I’ve featured in posts like:
Where’s Tim? January 2009 Edition
Christmas 2008 in Eustis
Wanna Know More About How We Make Cot Covers?
2008 NFDA Convention: Final Reflection
2008 NFDA Convention: Sportsman Urns
2008 NFDA Convention: Customer Testimonial
January 29, 2009
Final Embrace at the 2009 GFDA/IFDG Expo
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While I had originally planned to show off our redesigned cot cover models at the South Carolina Expo in early February, I had to change our strategy after a busy December and January pushed our preparations back a few weeks.
So we’re not going to the South Carolina show (which starts Febuary 1st), but I still want to show off our new stuff when it’s ready in a few weeks.
So we’ll be hitching up the wagon and rolling into Atlanta for the Georgia Expo in early March. The show, co-sponsored by the Georgia FDA and the Independent Funeral Directors of Georgia, should attract a few hundred directors and just under 100 exhibitors.
Since we’re registering kinda late, the booth space will cost us $550 instead of $500. I’ll choose a cheap hotel for two nights and drive home Tuesday evening.
My tentative goal is to spend less than $1200 and return with at least 10 covers sold.
That’s similar to what I described in the post IFDF Convention: 2007 Roundup. To paraphrase, we spent a little more than $400 for that show (it was held very near my home) and generated over $2000 in sales.
So if you’re planning to be in Atlanta for the show, make sure you stop by our booth and see our beautiful quilted cot covers up close and in person!
December 31, 2008

We’ve had quite a few orders during these last days of 2008, with most of our customers asking for payment information so they can get their covers expensed on their 2008 taxes.
With that in mind, here’s a list of what each model costs, along with shipping charges, so you can write a check today and mail it to us. You’ll get a beautiful new quilted cot cover and your accountant will thank you.
BASIC COT COVER: $190 each
DELUXE COT COVER: $225 each
ULTRA COT COVER: $260 each
1 ITEM SHIPPING: $12
2 ITEM SHIPPING: $16
3 ITEM SHIPPING: $20
To see all our offerings, visit www.cotcovers.com or call 321-287-0628.
Experts agree that the best way to improve your tax situation is to pay tomorrows expenses today (like stocking up on stuff you’ll use next year anyway) and pushing off income to next year (so you pay for them on your April 2010 return).
So what are you waiting for? Get that cot cover ordered today and take advantage of the tax savings on your 2008 return!

December 22, 2008
New Bears at Treasured Memory Bears
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In addition to our quilted cot cvoers, we also make our Treasured Memory Bears throughout the year, but Christmas is obviously a very important and busy time for our bear-making operations.
We take clothing of a beloved person (often someone who is deceased) and fashion teddy bears out of them. So instead of sculpting bears from fur, we use fabric that has special memories and feeling attached.
None of the following bears were made for Christmas 2008. We like to wait a few months after we deliver a bear to show it online, so all of these bears are from last year or early 2008.






You can see all the bears we’ve got in our gallery by visiting our site at www.treasuredmemorybears.com.
December 19, 2008
A Special Pink Cover, Now Available
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We made this pink cover for a woman who saw us at the national convention:

We didn’t think there was any chance we’d ever make another pink cover, but we’ve had some interest. So here’s telling you that this will be one of new offerings come February.

The fabric is georgeous, isn’t it? And if you’re looking for a cover that is definitely feminine, but tasteful, please consider this one.
Buy either one at our website, www.cotcovers.com.
December 19, 2008
A Spin-off Pattern of the “Welcome Home” Cot Cover
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This is one of the beautiful quilted cot covers we already sell, called “Welcome Home”:

And this is a new variant, all made in our U.S. facility by American workers:

We haven’t decided what to call it yet, but I’m thinking something “Country.”
Got any suggestions?
December 18, 2008
It’s time to remind you about our product review service, which I originally outlined a year ago by writing Product Reviews: Let Us Abuse You For Free!
Here’s a recap:
We love reviewing products. The group of funeral professionals I’ve assembled have always enjoyed seeing new products and playing with them (that’s a euphemism, as many of the items we review are serious, death-related products0.
My reviewers are an eclectic team, with different experiences and personalities. This ensures that your product will be viewed by a wide range of industry professionals (and a few novices and non-funeral types) and get the most thorough review possible.
We tell you about our review before we publish it. If the review is negative, we offer you the opportunity to remove your product from consideration. We don’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings or their ability to earn a living. And, frankly, I don’t like printing negative stuff on this blog anyway!
Our service is free. We don’t allow any compensation for our reviews. If you choose to sponsor the blog at another time, we will make a strong effort to explain our relationship to our readers so no one thinks we’ve been bought. Of course, we reserve the right to hold a review or delay a sponsorship to keep any appearance of impropriety at bay.
Getting your product reviewed is easy. Just send physical products to Final Embrace, PO BOX 1268, Eustis, FL 32727. For digital items or other services, email us at finalembraceonline@gmail.com.
December 10, 2008
Good Christmas Gifts: 365 Ways to Live Cheap
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My blog friend, Trent Hamm, has just published his first book.
Trent writes the wonderfully-successful blog, The Simple Dollar, where he talks about his own struggles to “right his family’s financial ship” and shares important tips for getting a handle on your own money issues.
The book, which costs just $7.95 from Amazon, is a wonderful stocking-stuffer for the people on your Christmas list.
It’s already available for order on Amazon.com.
Editor’s Note: The Simple Dollar, started at the end of 2006, is one of the 1,000 most popular blogs on the Internet, as compiled by Technorati.
October 29, 2008
2008 NFDA Convention: RK Productions
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One of the other exhibitors I met at the NFDA Convention was Randy from RK Productions.
A veteran of the gift industry, Randy has decided to bring his expertise with carved stone items to the urns.
Randy’s urns are beautiful, like the “In Flight Urn” pictured here:
Unique and high-quality, urns by RK Productions are different than what is currently available in the funeral industry. I was especially impressed with the weight (carved from real stone material!) and the level of detail in each piece.
They also provide personalized engraving at an additional charge.
You can see the full line of Ever After urns from RK Productions here.
While I can’t disclose Randy’s wholesale pricing, I double-checked to make sure the numbers he quoted me were accurate.
Reasonably priced and beautiful, these urns are something truly new to the industry. Call Randy today to find out how to get a few for your selection room.
RK Productions Inc.
Toll Free: 1-888-ARK-PROD(275-7763)
NOTE: This is a free review. RK Productions has NOT offered any compensation for this product spotlight.
October 26, 2008
2008 NFDA Convention: Final Reflection
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October 16, 2008
2008 NFDA Convention: Customer Testimonial
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September 16, 2008
“Funeria” Exhibit of Artistic Urns
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The Art Honors Life, Funeria Gallery is opening their 4th International Funerary Arts Exhibition with an installation titled “Ashes to Art | Scattered”. The gallery is located in Graton, California.
Funeria is a group dedicated to bringing art to funeral services, with urns and other items created by an internatioal group of artists.
Included in the exhibit are short films and other installations dealing with cremation and scattering.
Visit the Funeria website to RSVP for the opening.
Read an in-depth article on the West County Gazette blog.









